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Now a family of four, life is never a bore. We are enjoying our two boys and life in Sequim. Our blogging these days is lacking, but we haven't given up...

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Playing Catch(-up)

The last month has flown by, and as you may have noticed, I have not blogged at all. I did "write" several blog entries in my head, but never did make it to the computer to share them with you. In fact, just last week I downloaded a month's worth of pictures from my camera. I was a little behind.

It almost seems silly to play catch-up now, but since this blog serves as a journal for us of Gavin's first year (and in the off chance you may want to know what you've missed the last four weeks), I will do a quick update before chronicling Gavin's 6 month birthday and the latest news.

One of Gavin's new skills and activities this last month was playing catch. Yes, catch. We'd set him up in a reclined position and without much coaching he learned to move his arms inward to trap the ball. And, if that didn't work, he often stopped the ball with this feet. He would even do some fancy footwork to raise his feet in an effort to bring the ball up to his hands. Seemed like a pretty amazing skill to us, but maybe it's normal. We won't be surprised though if these are early signs that we'll have a soccer all star in the future. We now play a modified version of this game as he loses interest in the reclined position and wants to sit up (but is not quite sturdy enough to catch and sit).

Other than that, the big theme between 5 and 6 months seemed to be "almost."

Almost... sitting up. For most of the month he's enjoyed sitting on our laps or nestled in the boppy pillow on the floor, but hadn't quite mastered sitting on his own. One of the fun new skills that came along with almost sitting-- bouncing. The joy is contagious when he bounces up and down on your lap, arms raising up and down. Don't forget the sound effects.

Almost... giggling. Gavin is no question a happy baby, but for some reason we still have not been entertaining enough for a full giggle. He'll string a few laughs together, but we're still waiting for the unabandoned belly laugh.

Almost... ready for solid foods. It has been obvious for a bit now that Gavin is completely enamored with my coffee cup. He loves watching it raise and lower and will turn and twist his body to get a glimpse of it on the floor. That and some other clues have had us preparing for his first "meal" on his 6 month birthday. I considered feeding him rice cereal in one of our coffee mugs but then had a moment of parent foresight-- Gavin grabbing my full, hot coffee mug thinking it was his food-- so I decided to go with glass bowls instead.

Hi-Chair "Practice"

Do you think he needs more to eat?

Almost... on the move. These days we savor the fact that we can set Gavin down to lay on the floor and when we come back, he is still there. However, he is growing his moving skills and reminding us that it won't be long before he is one the move. On his back, he's learned how to arch and will rotate 180 degrees. On his tummy, he first figured out how to lift his legs and push, burrowing his head and eventually moving forward. Now he's figured out that he can move a bit while in the push up position. But, since his legs don't work in tandem with his arms, when his arms are in control he scoots backwards. This can be a bit frustrating, especially when there is a toy or other target out in front.
Almost forgot to mention that Gavin and I survived our first week without Tony (he was in San Diego at a Pastor's conference). He was definitely missed, but I'd say we fared pretty well. And it was pretty cute to see Gavin smile when we said Good Night and Good Morning to Tony's photo on the wall. He's also been interested in the phone lately and even responded to hearing Tony's voice mail message on speakerphone.
It's been quite a fun month. I wish I could just bottle everything up-- all of the excitement, joy, new discoveries, emotions, sounds --to open up at a later date. But alas, Gavin keeps growing and changing and reminding us what a gift he is and to savor each moment.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Five Months Old!

Gavin turned 5 months old last week. (Tear. He's growing up so fast!) Our little guy continues to hone his skills of reaching, grabbing, holding, screaming, talking, wiggling, tummy time and even a little rolling.

I read in one of my baby books the other day that temperment has more influence on when babies roll-- more than ability. So, mellow temperment (Gavin) equals contentment just hanging around and being visually stimulated (Gavin) while casually working on his skills (Gavin). Explains him to a "T." Speaking of "T", the Toths are known to be a mostly mellow clan, so maybe (er, most definitely) it's in his genes.


Oops. Cute outfit, but the pants blend in to the pattern of the chair. This is Gavin's 2 second sitting pose. He's working on his sitting skills too.



Our Happy Little Camper

Just before New Year's, Tony took his middle school students to winter camp at Black Lake Bible Camp in Olympia and Gavin and I got to tag along. Thankfully, we had our own cabin complete with living room, bathroom and kitchenette.

We (or at least I) ate camp food with the kids and went to as many of the events as we could handle. It was fun for me to get to know some of the students since I don't usually hang out with the middle school group. And Gavin, well, let's just say he was a hit. And he seemed to adjust pretty well himself.

At the end of the three days Tony commented, "Gavin is a good youth group kid." We are constantly thankful for our happy, well-adjusted, flexible son. We are truly blessed and having a ball.

Looks to me like he's enjoying himself.

Gavin's harem of leaders and middle school girls. I had a big laugh at the girls gushing over Gavin. At one point one of the girls adoringly exclaimed, "Oh! He sneeeeezed!"

All geared up for the cold in our little cabin.

Will Gavin take after his silly Papa? I hope so.

The whole gang.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

New Faces, New Tricks, New Traditions... All in a Week's Time

The week of Christmas was quite eventful for the Toth Family. So eventful, in fact, that it took me a couple of weeks to recover and then a couple more to catch up with photos and blogging.

We had a great time this Christmas. Everything we did had so much more meaning because we got to share it with Gavin. We had lots of fun enjoying all of the firsts and thinking through some of the traditions our family will have. Gavin is by far the greatest gift we received this year.

So here are the cliff notes of Gavin's first Christmas and our trip to California.

Gavin's first plane flight (outside the womb, of course.)
Loving standing and playing with his Papa.

Our valiant knight, Oliver.
A new family tradition-- new PJs on the eve of Christmas Eve.

Christmas morning and Gavin's first stocking. He was quite enamored with the gummable keys in his stocking.
The making of Toth Family Cinnamon Rolls on Christmas evening. Quite scrumptuous. Way to go Tony!
Tony introduced Gavin to his first Tommy Burger. Don't worry. No burgers or soda were consumed by Gavin in the taking of this photo.

Crowns from our Christmas Crackers.

Gavin with his Gramme and Grampa.
Cyrus Toth. Is he cute or what?
Tony's longtime friend Marie. She was witness to Gavin's first rollover. Gavin's other new tricks included playing with his feet, additional talking sounds and wiggling his way to a 180 degree rotation.

Ivan was excited but a little apprehensive to hold Gavin but he did a great job!

More Cousins! Ivan, Gavin, Elitza and Cyrus. Not Pictured: Baby #4.

Good Friends. Gavin meets Jenny and Henry (and Jeff, not pictured). The boys are 4 weeks apart and destined to be great friends.
Gavin with is Uncle Philip and Cousin Oliver. Where's Auntie Colleen?

Gavin: "Why am I awake Papa?"
We had a pre-Christmas dinner with all of the family. Time got away from us and we started opening gifts after 8:30. After realizing that we couldn't experience gifts without Gavin, we scooped him out of bed and interrupted sleep. Needless to say he was a little confused.

This blurry picture demonstrates some of the chaos of the gift opening extravaganza.
Cousins Sicily and Olvier. They are the cutest!
Another introduction: Cousin Rocco and Uncle Warren. (Also Cousin Sicily and Aunt Nichole.) These guys are only 8 days apart. They made the same facial expressions and noises. It was a crack up.
Grampa and Gavin hit it off from the start.
Gramme and Grampa were having so much fun with the company and festivities there was no reason to leave it all and sleep in a cozy bed.

Gavin got to meet Jen and Steve Sweet-- VIPs in Tony's life.
Friends from the Laguna Crew-- the Sweet boys, Bryan and Brooke.

Our adorable little reindeer.
Gavin made more friends-- More folks from the Laguna posse. Casey, Garret & Cindy, Cameron and Laura.

Ummm. Islands. Yummy. And Laguna friends. Jill, Casey, Cindy & Garret, Cameron and my boys.
Gavin just needed a little introduction to his feet and then they were instant friends.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Four Months Old and Snow is Falling

Gavin is now Four Months Old! (as of last Saturday) Not an extremely eventful marker except that it means that we are only two months away from solid food. Right now that is a lot to get my mind around so it's good I still have two months.
Gavin continues to be a good natured, fairly mellow baby. In fact, many people comment that he's like his dad. He is often caught wide-eyed observing and soaking everything in. At church, at the store, and in other new and social situations, he is very content to watch and learn, often with very little wiggling. We can almost see the wheels spinning in his head.

We went to the doctor for his four month check up today. Gavin is weighing in at 14lbs. 9oz. and almost 26" long. Doc said he's healthy and on the right track.


We've been enjoying Christmas concerts, parties and events and now our first snow fall of the year and Gavin's first snow. He's not much for the cold, but the bundle sack that fits on his car seat is very warm and cozy. So cozy, in fact, that it's almost recipe for an instant nap.


What a joy he is!

Friday, December 12, 2008

A Few More Firsts

We've enjoyed a few more "firsts" in our family as of late:
1. Tony and I went on our first date A.G. (after Gavin). We left him in wonderful hands with our friend Corky from church and enjoyed a very nice and very indulgent dinner (thank goodness we had a gift certificate). We were away from Gavin for 2.5 hours and enjoyed the time alone. I am happy to report that I was quite relaxed during our date (but I was also very excited to return home to our son). The best part is that Corky said she'd do it again sometime. So there will be a date #2...
By the way, we went to the same restaurant a year ago, almost to the exact date (only 2 days off) for a Christmas party. That was the day that we found out we were pregnant. :)

2. We got Gavin's first Christmas tree last week. And it turns out it's the first Christmas tree that we've actually purchased since we've been married. We decided not to cut down any more trees in our backyard and instead went to the tree farm and cut down one of theirs. We decorated the tree and I had hopes that it would capture endless hours of Gavin's attention. So far he's not really captivated by it. In fact, we were about to put the star on the tree and I told Tony to wait because we couldn't do it without Gavin. So, I went and got him out of his crib (it was time to eat anyway) so that he could experience the tradition. He's was sure to let us know that he much prefers his own tradition of eating.





Weather report says that snow is coming to us this weekend... that will be another first.

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Our Little Vocalist

Our little guy has a set of lungs and he's discovered them in a new way. This past Sunday, while we were in the kitchen preparing lunch, we thought we heard him screaming in the living room. Turns out he was screaming, but it was a happy, "I'm experimenting with a new skill" kind of scream. He LOVES his voice.

It's quite loud and can be heard across the house. Seems like he's most vocal while he's playing with his "friends" on his floor gym in the living room.

Here's a video bit of our Happy Screamer. The camera angle is a little off because I did a "sneak attack" filming so that I wouldn't distract our little guy from his entertainment.