Vroom Vroom... Off to Grampa's

It was time for a visit to Glendora. It's always nice to be with family, but we especially wanted to be with Grampa while he was enduring another chemo cycle.

So, we left Papa (Tony) in Sequim and Gavin and I went to California all by ourselves. I wasn't really scared, even though the trip promised to be more than 10 hours from start to finish. Still, you never know with babies. Thankfully, our Gavin is predictably easy to deal with, distractable and social. This combination makes for a great traveller. Having our own row on the plane (both ways) was definitely a bonus.

Did I mention that my sister-in-law now lives 2 blocks from the airport? That certainly simplifies the process with an added bonus of Auntie Tonia (and family) quality time.

Honorary Auntie Tiffany picked us up from the airport and we met another Honorary Auntie, Jenn, and her daughter Ryann for dinner. It is so sweet to be with friends who know you from the good ol' days.

And isn't Ryann cute?! She'll be two in July. I don't think that'll be too old for Gavin in 20 years. You never know.


Gavin was happy to make friends with Auntie Tiffany (and Jenn) even though to him they are pretty much strangers. In fact, at this point, most people are strangers but that doesn't phase him. It's fun to know that we're getting closer and closer to Gavin remembering people.
Gavin made it the whole day in his special outfit, courtesy of Auntie Colleen, and was able to show it to Grampa. He's sporting a new "do." Doesn't he have a nicely shaped head?!


We did bring a hat for him (the black one) in case he wanted to show off his keen fashion sense. Gavin was happy to provide lots of entertainment to help distract Grampa. Grampa is quite the strong one. Progress tests and results will be coming soon. We'd love your prayers for healing and strength!
Gavin loved his auntie Colleen and made it very obvious how much he ADORED his cousin Oliver (almost 5 1/2). In fact, it was mutual admiration.

Gavin had is first baths in the big tub and had fun playing with Oliver. I will say it's a bit interesting trying to bath an early crawler/want to be standing all the time baby. I'm glad that Tony is usually in charge of the baths.

Gramme and Gavin shared some great play time. Especially with the percussion instruments. Gavin is quite the musical guy. Maybe there will be some instruments in his future...

Mom arranged for the whole family to get together-- Warren, Nichole, Sicily, Rocco (pictured), Tyler and Fatima, Colleen and Oliver (we missed Philip), Claire and Gavin (sans Tony) and Gramme and Grampa. Boy is the energy different for family gatherings these days. We snapped a few photos but couldn't even get the four cousins together. Oh well.

Rocco is the same age as Gavin. He's definitely on the top of the growth chart. Gavin is going to have to depend on Rocco to defend him on the playground-- Rocco is bigger in all aspects except the belly.

We were so glad to spend time with Honorary Auntie Jenny and her son Henry. Henry is a month older than Gavin and on the move. What a cutie. Once again, no great posed pictures, but we sure did have fun together.

It will be fun to have more play dates as the boys get older.

Uncle Warren and Gavin. He's a great Uncle (and Dad)!

Gavin enjoying grass time while Oliver and I play catch. The colored doors in the background are the classrooms at Windham School. (School is closed and the property is for sale, so it was good to get a token picture at the school.)

We had a great trip. It was so special to be with Grampa, Gramme, Colleen, Oliver and our other family and friends.

While we were in Glendora Gavin continued to work on his crawling and even began to clap. What fun! I love the outward expressions of his inward joy. We're blessed to have such a contented baby.

One more story on the subject of strangers... On the plane on the way home, a nice gentleman flight attendant stopped to talk to us. He had just approached and greeted Gavin when Gavin raised both of his arms as if to say "Please pick me up." I think you call that social. With all of the "strangers" from the past week, Gavin was used to being passed around among friendly people and somehow he could tell the flight attendant was nice and maybe somehow senses that he was a grandpa.

So now that we're home it's unpacking, laundry, and packing again. We're off to Texas later this week to be with Tony's parents for a family vacation. We just might melt in the heat but we're willing to suffer in exchange for relaxation and maybe even some nights out while mimi and bapa play with Gavin.

Gavin TV

This is our favorite reality show, by far. It may be overkill, but there were so many fun videos to share of recent episodes in "The Life and Times of Gavin Amadeus," I just couldn't resist posting these. (the most current is at the end)

Episode One: The Two Step
Gavin used this technique for quite a while-- Right, Left, Pivot and Sit. He was able to get around as much as he needed to in order to get to different nearby toys (and was obviously very proud of himself).

Episode Two: "This is How I Will Climb the White Pole"

"And for my next trick..." Gavin is quite the conversationalist. It's so fun to watch and imagine what is going on in his head, especially as his voice raises and lowers and the excitement grows. You can imagine your own story if you wish.

Here is the photo to prove he did it-- he pulled himself up. (Loading the video would take too long.)

Episode Three: Connecting the Dots

As of Saturday, Gavin has figured out how to wave. I can't even explain to you what joy and satisfaction there is in my heart to watch the progression-- from study, to interest, to minor movements, to the wave. I can watch the wheels spin as he thinks "I'm supposed to raise my hand when he raises his hand. I can do it. Here... I... go..." It is pure joy to witness the accomplishment and the grin of satisfaction as he knows he got it right.

Episode Four: Arms and Legs Together

We weren't sure if Gavin was motivated to crawl. Here is the evidence that he is. He's finally got his arms and legs working together and now he's much more interested in refining his skills. He's found a new burst of energy-- seems like he's much more wiggly and hyper than he ever was before.

Nine Months Old and Perfect!

I'm boasting a bit, yes, but this is what our pediatrician said last week at Gavin's 9 month check-up. She's highly trained afterall, so we appreciate her confirmation of what we already knew to be true.

I had one main goal this time in taking Gavin's 9 month photos-- properly demonstrate how big he is, especially his belly. This is one of the reasons (in addition to great fashion) that I dressed him in summer clothes (even though this outfit was completely inappropriate for the gloomy weather outside).

I'm not sure if you'll be able to tell how he's grown, so I'll also give you his current "stats" to help paint the picture.

Height 27.5 inches= 30th percentile

Weight 20lb 3 oz= 50th percentile

Head Circumference 47 cm= 80th percentile

(Note: at our last visit we thought he was heavier, but apparently there was an error in translating kilos to pounds.)

Add these all up and it equals a lot of baby in a short body. Combine with his mature head and it's no wonder people are often surprised to hear he is only 9 months. Gavin and one of his closest friends-- Curious George. They are sleeping buddies and Gavin always (yes, always) lights up when he sees George.

Mirror play is one of our favorite activities these days. Gavin is quick to catch a glimpse of himself even as we quickly move in and out of the bathroom.

Gavin has taken up reading. This is one of my new favorite things to watch. He lays down, picks up the book and talks and coos in a really sweet and high voice as he stairs at and handles the book. Nevermind that the book is upside down. One thing at a time.

Gavin is moving around but far from "on the move." Our little guy is still really content with a little rolling and manuevering to change scenery or entertainment. Tony and I are split on whether or not he'll actually crawl or go straight to walking. There is no doubt, however, that he likes to straighten his legs and always wants us to help him stand. Looks like he'll soon be pulling himself up on the furniture.

Gavin and his buddy George. This photo is during naptime (notice they are sleeping in the same position). Gavin is now sleeping through the night and after a couple of weeks I think I'm finally adjusted (not waking up all night). It's wonderful!

Tony recently decided that it was time for hair gel. Gavin had his hair spiked for the first time, but it didn't stay styled very long. At least you could tell that he has hair and it's growing.

Last but not least, Gavin in the kitchen with some of his favorite "toys." A pure and sweet pic if you ask me.

Notables

I've fallen behind a bit on blogging and realized that I have some fun photos to share before they are really old news.

Shortly after our trip to Mexico, Tony was able to take almost a week off. We headed over to Mazama (Eastern Washington) to meet up with Andrew (Tony's bro) and Connie and kids at their cabin. We had a nice visit.


The cousins headed home for Easter and the three of us shared a few quiet days alone in the cabin. We celebrated Gavin's first Easter without a lot of fanfare, but were sure to include some worship and the obligatory bunny ears.



The weather was cool, but with some sun we were able to enjoy time outdoors. Gavin had his first experience in the big backpack. We weren't so smart about bundling him up (we're used to the other "pack" we have that keeps both of us warm with body heat), but we'll do better next time.



In other news, Gavin is a champion eater. He will always eat everything he's given, even if he shows it's not his favorite, it's still food and he's not going to reject it. He's such a great eater that he's now up to 22 lbs. We'll go for our 9 month check-up next week and let you know all of the stats.

Eating times have begun to be a demonstration of Gavin's growing will and stubborness. He has learned how to tear off his bib and will push away the water glass. He's not really much of a stinker though and still throws us for a loop when he's fussy for any length of time-- we're just not used to it.


Finger foods are coming along, but Gavin still does not have any teeth.



We've had some beautiful spring days and have tried to get out and enjoy the sun. Last week we went down to the river for picnic lunch. We set up our little tent and enjoyed family time. Note: You might think the tent is useful to protect against harmful UV rays. You are correct, but we purchased this tent mainly with the purpose of blocking out wind and trying to absorb warmth from whatever sunshine is available so that we can enjoy as many days outside as possible.



Gavin had his first encounter with sand and it was so much fun to watch. He was quite intrigued and managed to be quicker than his parents and get a little bit of sand in his mouth. Not enough to spoil his lunch, don't worry. We're looking forward to a summer of many firsts and new discoveries.



This photo is in our backyard showing the beautiful grass that Tony has loved and cared for over the years. It's finally paid off.


The fishies are a major favorite of Gavin's. I often find him sprawled on the carpet, just gazing above to the tank. He thinks they are so neat that he will often choose to watch them instead of nurse. Gavin finds it quite exciting to get to watch as Papa feeds the fish each morning. At one point I thought maybe we'd get rid of the tank, but now that the fish are Gavin's friends, well, that sort of changes things. The fish are here to stay.

We send our love to you all and hope you are experiencing many blessings this spring.

Gracias a Dios

We have many reasons to give "Thanks to God" for another great Mexico Mission Trip.

Before we went on the trip I shared that I wasn't quite sure if or how I would be able to relax and just go with the flow of the trip while having Gavin in tow. And let me just say that God answered my prayers. Gavin was a dream traveller and didn't get thrown off too much by being in a different place for a week (except for starting his day every morning at 5:30 am). He loved being outside so much (we've been wimpy here in cold WA) and he loved the teenagers and adults and all of the activity around him.

I did my best to remain involved during the trip, but Gavin still got most of my attention. We're thinking that this will be the last trip for me and Gavin for a while. As he gets older, more mobile and requiring more (and different kinds of) attention, he'll probably be more of a distraction than anything else. Having been on this trip for the last five years, I've mourned a little bit that I won't get to go again for a while. But it's not about me after all-- the trip is for the high school students and that's where the focus needs to be.

Our group worked together quite well to complete two big projects. We painted and installed bamboo flooring in one of the girls's dorms-- a space over 1000 square feet. We also helped a family in the community by putting a roof on their house and pouring concrete for their floor. The father had been building his home brick by brick for the last five years and the couple had just become Christians. They were to be baptised a week after we left. They were very welcoming and quite overwhelmed with gratitude. It was a gift to be able to bless them.

Sorry I don't really have any good pictures of the projects. In fact, all of these pictures were taken by other people. I didn't even carry around a camera, can you believe it? At any rate, the blog from our trip is still up and you can see some other photos (that aren't Gavin-centered). The link is in the right margin.

We did some shopping at the Tijuana border while we were in line in our car to cross back into the US. We made a few impulse buys, including some tokens to help Gavin experience his Mexican heritage (no, it's not in his blood, but it's certainly has roots in Tony's family and even a little in Claire's).

We had a great trip! Thanks to all of you who said a few prayers on our behalf. We definitely benefitted from them.

Eight Months Old!

Here we are again, another month flown by. Gavin has been eight months for a week, so I figured I should posts some photos. I haven't forgotten about posting photos from our Mexico trip-- those will come soon.

These photos were taken at Andrew (Tony's brother) and Connie's house in Mazama, WA. We went there for a long weekend over Easter. Before Gavin, Tony had two "babies"-- his truck and his guitar. Needless to say I was pretty surprised when Tony suggested his guitar case and then even added his guitar for these photos. (Gavin even spit up a little into the guitar case-- OOPS! But neither one of my boys had a meltdown.)

Gavin did his best to reach for the guitar and eat it. Thankfully he didn't quite make it.

Gavin's face got washed out in this one, but look at those blue eyes!

Gavin continues to work on his crawling skills, but still no crawling, just moving backward. And, as of today, still no more teeth but he's still eating solid food like a champ. Gavin continues to prove to be our "slow and steady" kid. He's always learning and changing but just not in any hurry to make things happen. He's loving life and people and being outdoors. Sleep could be better, but we know that there will come a day.

Gavin has been making more little people friends lately. Babies and toddlers and a great source of entertainment for him. And, when they are near, his usual reaction is to stretch his arms out to his sides, tense up his muscles, bounce, and squeal and scream (in a happy way). Funny, as I describe it, it sounds like an animal mating call, but it's actually quite endearing. Just his way of saying I'm really happy right now and so excited to see you. He sometimes startles other kids sometimes with his volume and excitement.

These days he is also quite entertained with our fish tank. I'll watch him roll and scoot around a bit and then stop to take a break. Either on his back or with his head resting on the ground he finds a way to watch the fish move around in the tank while he rests. One of our recent babysitters said that the fish were the easiest way to soothe him.

There are more and more days here that feel like spring and what a charge of energy and enthusiasm the sunny days bring. We're excited for more walks and outdoor family adventures. Gavin has so many new things to experience, I can't wait.

Vamos a Mexico!

It's the time of year for our SCC Youth Mexico Mission Trip. For those of you that aren't familiar, we take a group of high school students and leaders down to Door of Faith Orphanage in La Mision, just south of Rosarito.

The photo above is from our commissioning during 9 am service last week. (If you click on the picture and look very closely, you might be able to see Gavin on the middle left in the back row.)

We leave tomorrow and this year we're taking Gavin. Are we crazy? Sometimes I wonder. But most likely we're just living on the edge a bit. We've been to the orphanage so many times that I think I know most of the variables. I think. I'm almost positive Gavin will do great. It's his mom that I sometimes wonder about. Will I be able to relax and enjoy too? That's the hope.

This year there has been more buzz than normal about declining safety in Mexico. After extensive research and conversations and two pre-trips down to the orphanage, Tony feels confirmed that we should go on the trip once again this year. Sure, there are bad things happening that we see in the news, but most seem to be near the Texas border or in bad areas of Tijuana. We heard a report that said travel was okay as long as we stayed away from drug and prostitute areas. I think we can handle that.

This year we're taking 25 students, 11 adults and one infant. It's a great group and we're confident God will do some great things. In fact, we've got one of our leaders reporting this year on our very own blog. Be sure to check it out.

http://sccmexicoteam.blogspot.com/