Becoming a Student Again

The second and third weeks of November brought us to California for Tony's first two intensives at Fuller Seminary for his Doctorate of Ministry Program.
In a previous blog I told of all of the reading Tony was to do prior to this trip. And ladies and gentleman, he pulled it off--17 books (I was mistaken with the 19) or 4500 pages in two months.
We had a great trip. Tony was in school all day and then went to Mexico for the High School Mission Trip pre-trip during the weekend between. He was busy and often exhausted from all of the thinking. He really enjoyed the class and was constantly sharing about interesting studies and other information he was learning. The 50 page paper he has due in April is a big undertaking, but I definitely think that God is the one that has it all worked out. He has Tony learning and growing already.

We stayed with Tony's brother David and family in Altadena in their new studio apartment. The digs were wonderful, but it was even better to see them daily (even if briefly) for two weeks. We had a few nice meals and hang out times with them too.
Gavin and I did a lot of running around visiting family and friends (as many as we could without going crazy). It was wonderful to catch up and spend times with people very special to us.
I snapped lots of photos, but as usual, I didn't catch every event/person. (I'm missing photos of our visits with Julie & Ashely and their kids, Tiffany, Robyn, Jenn & Ryann, Danny, Casey, Marie, and probably more. :( )

But here's a nice taste of our trip...

Perhaps the only family photo we took... leaving from Seattle Airport.

Fun times playing with Henry (and mom Jenny).

Lots of time with Cousin Oliver-- they adore each other.

Awwww.....

A visit to Santa Barbara with my sister Colleen, Philip and Oliver

With just a couple weeks of walking under his belt, Gavin loved the weather because it meant a lot of time spent walking. He couldn't help the big grin-- he's so proud!

Some quality time with Grampa.

The Arboreatum with Elitza, Ivan, Cyrus, Larissa and Aunt Kei.

Cousins!

More Cousins-- Rocco and Sicily (Warren & Nichole's kids)

Beautiful Larissa

More time with Grampa and Gramme.

Lots of extra energy to burn these days... tried to get it all out before the plane ride back home. Key word: TRIED.

Fall Fun

Here are some glimpses of the fun we've had enjoying fall in the Northwest.

Gavin had just started walking a few days before this. I think we were up to almost ten steps at a time by this picture, but still a little bit wobbly.

This was pre-Halloween dress up day at First Teacher.

Superman at our church Fall Family Festival.

I suggested Clark Kent for his costume, but this leisure suit was a lot easier to put together after running around to get the event ready.

Superbaby! Shortly after arriving at the gym, Gavin made big strides (literally) in his walking. Too much excitement to sit still.

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Gavin's first real Thanksgiving Feast.

Thanksgiving potluck at church means no clean-up. :)

Why would we ever go tent camping?

I'm back tracking now to catch up... The second weekend in October we had the opportunity to take off for two nights and head out to the coast. We swore off tent camping several years ago after our first and only experience in the Northwest. It was wet, to say the least, and we spent more time in hotels than we did in a tent.

But camping in a trailer, now that is where it's at. Friends of ours loaned us their petite trailer and we enjoyed time out at La Push. Tony's parents were already coming for a visit so they got to join us for the second night.

Tony surfed and the rest of us did some beach walking and lots of relaxing. Gavin had a great time and even slept really well (the first night). The second night was a little rough because we were without an official bed for Gavin and quickly discovered that the trailer wasn't probably made for four adults. But, this kind of "roughing it" is okay with me-- we had a roof over our heads, a toilet and sink, heater, fridge and cooktop/oven. We were grateful for the generosity of our friends look forward to more trips borrowing this trailer in the future.

Official Footage

Here it is, as promised-- official footage of our "walker." We're up to about 10 steps and counting. Today Gavin "walked" over to me when I picked him up at the nursery and we practiced walking at home. All I had to say was "Gavin, stand and walk to mama" and we was getting started. This is fun, especially because he's not into things yet (as they all promise me he will be).

A Few Steps Forward

Yesterday will go down in history as the day that Gavin took his first "stroll" as Tony calls it. (Pictures/video will hopefully follow soon.)

Up until last night, Gavin was fairly content to get around the house by pushing his train. I could count on one hand the times that he had previously taken a step or two without support, and each of those occurences had happened several days apart. Last night's steps were definitely the beginning of walking and worth memorializing in the blog (mostly so that I don't forget).


Here's how it went down:
Tony had some high school students over for Bible study. Once they were done, Gavin and I joined the group to visit with the kids. Gavin was noticably hyper-- squealing, screaming and muscles tensing with excitement. As I look back now, I think he was actually psyching himself up for the big move.

Eventually he was standing and walking around one of our chairs and then balancing/standing without support. Soon after, he took five steps forward and well all celebrated. He was very hyped after this and worked to stand and took another five steps. More praise and more celebration on Gavin's part.

But, that was all of the walking for the evening. Gavin continued to stand and balance, but couldn't get quite the right balance to move forward with steps. In fact, we had missed getting the first two instances of walking on video, but we did get a few of the good spills that followed. The students who stood witness got a kick out of being a part of the big day.

Today, he took four steps, but that's it. Many times he stood holding on to a chair or something with one hand and I could see the wheels spinning. He is obviously excited to walk, and constantly contemplating it, but not quite ready for regular mobility.

I'll keep you posted...

Family Updates

As you've noticed, Gavin is the center of attention these days. Recently, however, it occured to me that you (or maybe one or two of you) may want to know what is going on with the rest of the family. So here are a couple quick updates:

TONY

"Back to School"

This year's back to school marks the beginning of Tony's 6th year of ministry here in Sequim. Can you believe it?! Time flies. Last weekend we had a retreat with the volunteer leaders and are excited for what this year will bring.

Tony himself is also going back to school this fall. He was recently accepted to a Doctor of Ministry program through Fuller Seminary. Focusing on "Youth, Family and Culture," the program operates in a cohort style.

Half of the year Tony will be reading, then meet for two weeks in Pasadena with his fellow classmates, then spend the other half working on papers and projects. After three years of this Tony will then work on and implement a project suited for his ministry.

This fall is a little bit intense because Tony didn't get his syllabus until the end of August and is required to read 4500 pages before November 9th. He's getting up early and off to work each morning to put in a couple of hours before the official day begins. So far he has two books completed. Only 17 more to go!

CLAIRE

Women's Ministry

This last weekend I had my first official "speaking engagement." I was invited (and paid a bit)to speak to a "moms on the run" group at it's first meeting. I shared my thoughts on contentment and really enjoyed the process and the event. It took me quite a bit to prepare but seems to really work with my passions and my giftings. Perhaps there will be more opportunities in the future.

In the meantime, I have taken on some leadership responsibilities with our young womens/mom ministry called "SHE." We start up on September 30th and I have been busy putting together our calendar or speakers and rallying a team of other women to share the load. God is putting all of the pieces together and I am very thankful.

GAVIN

Sure, you've had a lot of him lately, but I did forget to share his latest stats.

At his one-year check up:

Weight: 23lbs. 4oz 55th percentile

Height: 30 inches 55th percentile

It's So Much Fun to be ONE!

This I've found to be true-- each stage is better than the last. And each time we enter a new stage with Gavin we think "this is so much fun. I can't imagine it any better."

Needless to say, this stage of being one is lots of fun. For us and for Gavin. He has so many new ways of experiencing his parents, his food, and the many things in the world around him.

1. Eating Like a Big Boy
They made me do it. By "they" I mean the experts-- the books I was reading told me that at this age Gavin should be able to feed himself and learn to use the spoon.

I wanted to resist but figured they probably knew what they were talking about. Gavin thinks it's pretty fun and it's cool to watch him figure things out. Soon enough he'll figure out which side of the spoon is the right side, but for now meals are long, messy and sometimes a good practice in patience. It's good for both of us.

2. Getting Dirty-- Playtime outside is so much fun! And I finally started letting Gavin get dirty-- on purpose. He loves exploring the sand, grass or whatever earth or surface is below him.
He's really enjoying investigating our deck these days too. This is a good activity for Papa and Gavin to share because Papa's heart doesn't go into his stomach every time Gavin gets close to the edge. Instead, Papa is teaching him to stop at the edge and how to go down the stairs backwards. Thank you Tony! (not a job that comes easily to mama)


3. My Very Own Play Corner
Toys. They get bigger and more plentiful as time goes on. As they threatened to take over Tony and I decided that it was time to have a "system" to help contain the spread of toys. After some planning and a fantastic trip to IKEA, we now have a play corner in our living room for Gavin.
I love it! And I know that he'll have lots of fun with it over time. Soon enough he'll be driving his cars on the play mat and helping me put away toys. I LOVE IKEA!!!

4. Bath Time-- This has always been a favorite, but there are new joys in this stage. Each evening, we announce bath time and Tony starts down the hallway to the bathroom. Now Gavin crawls behind him with speed and narration, excited for (and very aware of) what's to come.
He loves to stand on the bath stool and watch the tub fill up. He tugs on his clothes and diapers, saying very clearly "It's time."
5. Teeth!-- Since his first birthday, Gavin has gotten 3 more teeth. And finally, teeth 5 and 6 to come in are his first top teeth. For two weeks he had only one top tooth and had such a funny grin. I tried to capture it below, but pictures didn't quite do it justice.

Now that he has two on top and four on bottom, we can practice biting into apples and other exciting foods.

6. Standing, dancing and almost walking-- Gavin is cruising along the furniture and standing up in the kitchen trying to open cabinets (thank goodness for those locks!). He doesn't sit still too much these days because he wants to test his growing skills.

I count myself fortunate that Gavin has not started walking yet. Sure, I love to see him advance, but I'm in no hurry. I know that there are some new and exciting challenges ahead for us when he actually walks.

For now, he's content to practice. And this last weekend we were in a house with stairs. He crawled across the room, approached the stairs, and without a moment's hestiation he crawled six stairs before stopping. Who knew he could even do it? He was very proud of himself.

7. Play Dates-- These last two weeks we have had our first official play dates. We've found that play dates with other toddlers that are walking aren't nearly as satisfying as those are still crawling and exploring the idea of walking.

Gavin is such a social person that when the walking toddler appears and then disappears he can hardly contain himself. He gets excited/frustrated and squeals/grunts as if to say "where did he go? I wanted to greet him and poke him in the eye. Where is he?"

Below are Gavin and William (5 weeks younger) at our park. They are at almost the same stage in their crawling/walking and do pretty well to play together. When playing at Will's house last week Gavin was sure to show he was older and bigger and comandeered a few toys. Guess it's time to really start teaching sharing.

8. Making Connections-- It's such a thrill to see how much Gavin can understand these days. A few weeks ago we were reading a book and I said "Gavin do you see the fish?" In response he raised his head and looked up at the fish tank. I was amazed and so proud! (Of course, the fish tank has since been replaced with the play corner.)

About two weeks after his birthday, Gavin finally mastered being able to raise his pointer finger in response to "how old is Gavin?" These and other connections are so much fun. We are especially fond of balls and Gavin will find one when we mention "ball" or point one out in a book without prompting.

I'm not sure what's better-- watching him make the connection or the joy and satisfaction on his face when he figures it out and listens to our praise. Words just can't express how my heart swells.

God is good and the miracle of a child is such a gift. Tony and I are continually thankful and often reminded of what a responsibility we have in loving and caring for our precious son.